The information you have will make some sources of information useful, and
others useless. For instance, it would do you little good to find a legal
notice regarding the relinquishment if all it contains is Birth Family
information. You are seeking facts about the child AFTER relinquishment.
Note: If you are a
birthparent who is unable to remember exact dates, times or places of
the birth, you are not alone! Memories are kept alive by recall,
sharing stories and keeping mementos. Trauma, and the demand for
secrecy, often make a person unable to accurately remember events that
took place.
There are many helpful Internet forums where those who have
experienced the birth and relinquishment of a child can discuss their
situations. If you are thinking about searching, you want to be
ready for ALL that might come of a reunion. We would be happy to
furnish names of groups that are supportive and educational for the
person who would like to find his or her birthchild.
